MVMARRY VISHALCompatibility checklist
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Seven sections · one honest answer

Think you can
marry Vishal?

Check each statement, then tell the truth: green check if you qualify, blue plus if you meet a nice-to-have, red X if you don’t.

01 · The foundations

Non-negotiables

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You are between 18 and 29 years old.
You have a barefoot height of at least 4'10" (148 cm) and at most 6'2" (188 cm).
You have a height appropriate bodyweight.  [select your barefoot height and indicate whether you are in range]
You have double verified intelligence that’s at least 1 standard deviation above the mean. [need 2 qualifying test scores - see below]
You want to give birth to and raise at least 4 children.
You have 0 tattoos.
You’ve never had any plastic surgery to change your face.
You’ve never had any body modifications done like breast enhancements, BBLs, or leg lengthening.
You have a high school diploma or equivalent (GED).
You are fluent in the English language (at least CEFR C1 proficiency level).
You've never been pregnant.
You've never had an abortion.
You have no childcare responsibilities.
02 · Having these moves you to the top of the list

Strongly Preferred…

0/8
You have a respectable credit score.
You are under 25 years old.
You are vegetarian or vegan.
You are of chaste life.
You've never had botox treatments.
You've never had facial or derma filler injections/implants.
You have an easily visible thigh gap - specifically, the upper thigh gap variation.
You want to be a full time stay at home mom (SAHM).
03 · Bonus points

Nice to Have…

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You spent at least 10 years of your life between the ages of 0 and 18 in the United States.
You have a really good relationship with your father.
You want to be a compassionate tiger mom.
You lead with honesty, even when it is uncomfortable.
You are a practicing Hindu, Jain, or Zoroastrian.
You have an Rh positive blood type. [select your blood type below]
You have no long term debt.  You only have revolving credit card debt you pay off at the end of the month.
You have a college degree from a top 50 university in the United States per US News and World Report.
You grew up on a farm.
You were homeschooled as a child.
You served in the military.
You have not received any COVID-19 vaccinations or booster shots.
You are fit enough to score at least a 350 on the US Army's Army Fitness Test (AFT).
You can speak at least foreign language that is spoken by at least half a billion people (L1+L2).
You were born on a day of the month whose digits add up to 8.
04 · The little trades

You Need to Give Up…

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You agree to completely give up alcoholic beverages and intoxicants.  You will not partake in "social drinking".
You agree to give up eating beef, pork, shellfish, crustaceans, and all other creatures deemed unclean by Leviticus 11 and Deuteronomy 14.
You agree to give up "girls' night out" where you dance the night away at a nightclub or disco.
You agree to give up hosting domesticated animals inside the house where we live.  No dogs, cats, birds, reptiles, rodents, and the like.
You agree to completely give up smoking of all kinds including marijuana and cigarettes.
You agree to completely give up all drug use including but not limited to meth, crack, cocaine, amphetamines, and similar substances.
05 · The shared promises

You Need to Agree to…

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You agree to check with me before making appearance changes like hairstyle changes, body modifications, or cosmetic surgeries.
You agree to give me total veto power over anything you wear, including clothing, jewelry, makeup, and fragrances.
You agree to give me total veto power over anything you post online via social media, a blog, or video content.
You agree to allow me choose where our family lives and where we raise our children.  As of now, the plan is staying in the United States.
You agree to be straightforward with me and bring up any concerns you have ASAP.  Don't let wounds fester and say "I'm fine." when you are not.
You agree to accompany me as wife to religious ceremonies.  You do not need to convert to Hinduism, but you have to be there with me.
06 · What stays yours

You get to keep…

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You may worship any God that you have a connection with.
You will have my full support in maintaining any relationship you have with your current family.
You and the kids can live anywhere you have a strong preference for (as long as it's safe and appropriate).
07 · This is NOT going to work.

You are not a fit if…

0/4
You are looking for an "equal partner".
You idolize Carrie Bradshaw.
You want to be the next Evelyn Hugo.
You think Lindsay Clancy should not be incarcerated.